Thursday, April 28, 2011
escape artist
while I stand by my last blog – a rant defending my right to live un-harassed for my entertainment choices - I believe I left some things out of it that would further explain why I'm so passionate about this topic. I'm not really the type of person who can sit through very many of what I like to call "bubblegum movies" - totally meaningless wastes-of-time with too many boobs and too much slapstick comedy… to me, films should be experiences that offer new perspectives, have relatable characters, and original or witty humor. I'm not above a somewhat lowbrow movie occasionally if it offers a good laugh, but what I love the most about film is when it becomes a window into another world – when you can imagine the rest of existence beyond what you see on the screen.
I am an escape artist. not that I'm great at being sneaky or wriggling out of handcuffs, but I am an expert at escaping out of the sometimes mundane drawl of everyday life and into the worlds contained within these stories. That is the place film takes me.
I completely recognize that I cannot live in that place - I need to make my own extraordinary experiences and cherish them more than the imaginary ones. This is obvious to me, but I see absolutely no problem in finding traits in real or imaginary heroes and modeling myself after them. Certain movies encourage me to take risks I may otherwise be too fearful to take. Some renew my faith in humanity or my faith in love. I'm lucky enough to have family and friends surrounding me that possess many of the qualities I'd love to find in myself, but not everyone does. would you fault them for learning strength or courage or faith through characters in movies? Of course not. There will always be trashy entertainment that no one should watch, spend money on, or learn from – but for those of us more selective and passionate about our film choices, spare your judgement.
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
i like what i like
its been awhile, blogosphere. i hate to make my re-entrance with a rant, but its happening.
i would just like to say that... i am SO TIRED of getting ragged on for the things i like!! this mostly pertains to my favorite forms of entertainment - books, movies & tv shows. nearly everyone partakes in these pastimes and of course everyone picks favorites. i know i'm not the only one who gets passionate about these things - there are massive followings for all sorts of fandoms, from star trek to harry potter to the office. we're devoted to them, and i personally don't see any problem with being extremely interested in any given book, movie, or show, as long as you're not a stalker... which brings me to my main point:
WHY do i have to hear over and over that the things i like aren't acceptable?? that i'm stupid for caring?? that the things i like have no value?? that i'm wasting my time?? its almost as if my validity as a person drops a few points when its revealed that i like a certain book series or tv show.
who decided that it was okay to immediately and completely judge a person by their tastes in entertainment?? sure, it can be indicative of some personality traits, but by no means does it define me. we're so quick to defend people when they're being socially tread upon for racist or sexist reasons, but its totally okay to consistently demean people based purely on their choice of music or movie genres. what gives?? the whole reason racist and sexist comments are unacceptable is because they make assumptions about an entire group of people based on the opinions or actions of only a few people - and some of these assumptions are completely baseless. HOW is assuming every single star trek fan is a pimply nerd any different?? OR, that every twilight fan is a screaming brainless fangirl??
i'm just tired of hearing it. enough already. i like what i like. so shut it.
i would just like to say that... i am SO TIRED of getting ragged on for the things i like!! this mostly pertains to my favorite forms of entertainment - books, movies & tv shows. nearly everyone partakes in these pastimes and of course everyone picks favorites. i know i'm not the only one who gets passionate about these things - there are massive followings for all sorts of fandoms, from star trek to harry potter to the office. we're devoted to them, and i personally don't see any problem with being extremely interested in any given book, movie, or show, as long as you're not a stalker... which brings me to my main point:
WHY do i have to hear over and over that the things i like aren't acceptable?? that i'm stupid for caring?? that the things i like have no value?? that i'm wasting my time?? its almost as if my validity as a person drops a few points when its revealed that i like a certain book series or tv show.
who decided that it was okay to immediately and completely judge a person by their tastes in entertainment?? sure, it can be indicative of some personality traits, but by no means does it define me. we're so quick to defend people when they're being socially tread upon for racist or sexist reasons, but its totally okay to consistently demean people based purely on their choice of music or movie genres. what gives?? the whole reason racist and sexist comments are unacceptable is because they make assumptions about an entire group of people based on the opinions or actions of only a few people - and some of these assumptions are completely baseless. HOW is assuming every single star trek fan is a pimply nerd any different?? OR, that every twilight fan is a screaming brainless fangirl??
i'm just tired of hearing it. enough already. i like what i like. so shut it.
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